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Slide 1: Healing After An Affair: Obstacles Holding You Back From Healing http://www.EmotionalAffairAdvice.com
Slide 2: How Do We Restore The Trust? • The rebuilding of trust in a relationship after cheating is one of the biggest obstacles to overcome. • The cheating spouse needs to become open, transparent and show by words and actions that they are free of pretense and deceit. • To rebuild a relationship that has been shredded by lies and deceit, you need to create a new foundation of trust, one stone at a time.
Slide 3: Does My Spouse Still Love Me? • Whether your spouse is still in love with you or not is a hard question to fathom. The only person who can give you a real answer is your spouse. • Cheating does not automatically mean that your spouse has fallen out of love with you. So it's possible your spouse still loves you after the affair. • Your cheating spouse has lost his way and is doubtless feeling confused at the moment. His love for you may be buried somewhere deep inside.
Slide 4: Will My Spouse Cheat Again? • If your spouse cheated on you once, will he cheat again? No one can with absolute certainty say for sure whether your spouse will cheat again or not. But consider:  Is he listening to your pain and communicating?  Were they multiple affairs or was it just once?  Has your spouse been truly apologetic about all the pain and emotional distress that the affair caused you?  Is your cheating spouse ready to be open and transparent with you or is he or she being secretive and defensive?
Slide 5: Why Did My Spouse Cheat? • When you are faced with the reality of infidelity in your marriage, it is normal to want to know 'why' at some point in the healing process. Some people say they cheat because of: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Low self-esteem Perceived or real shortcomings in their marriage Just for the thrill of it The opportunity presented itself Their spouse supposedly not meeting their physical or emotional needs • • You may come to some understanding of your spouse's actions, but you will probably never understand why they cheated.
Slide 6: How Do I Keep It From Happening Again? • Both of you need to sit down and have a serious discussion about setting boundaries in your relationship - and sticking to them when it comes to dealing with members of the opposite sex. • Learn how to communicate effectively, with transparency and 100 percent honesty. • Avoid a marriage rut - take steps to spring free from this rut and have fun again.
Slide 7: Steps To Healing After An Affair • There are many more steps to healing after an affair. • Start with this step-by-step system that will show you exactly what to do and in what order so that you can start building a better than ever marriage right now. • To learn more visit: http://www.EmotionalAffairAdvice.com