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Men facing divorce have a built in disadvantage, they face a bias and often it is difficult for men to overcome it. The bias is mostly cultural but there are also laws and procedures that give the edge to women in a divorce. For men, divorce means built in disadvantages, but disadvantages that you can overcome with tactics and strategy. You may discover that not only is there a cultural bias against men in the courts but also outside, your friends and neighbors. Still there are many good strategies and tactics for men in divorce and you can win this thing. Just because you are divorcing you haven't gotten away from dealing with your soon to be ex, a big tactic that the other side may bring against you is doing things just to rattle you. They want to keep you off balance and if possible get you to do something stupid that will cost you in court. So... keep your head together as you find them taking trivial things and blowing them out of proportion. Do you really want the family dog enough to spend thousands fighting over him? Stay away from trivial it will cost you big time and it will take your attention from the things you really care about. So know your outcome, know what it is that you want. You want to avoid needing to have the last word. Don't argue about anything, express yourself but avoid the anger and turmoil. Remember you don't need the last word on things as you negotiate, you need to have the last word in court. By the way - an interesting statistic - most people start up their divorces during football season, go figure. Next, stay positive, if you get off into depression, if you get down and stop believing in your power to turn the divorce in your direction will cause you to not focus and pay attention to the things you want from the divorce. That can cost you big time. You've got to remember that no one cares more about the outcome of your divorce than you. You have to stay involved, and not avoiding involvement in your divorce. Your lawyer is busy, don't trust it just to him. Make sure you stay involved and keep managing things. You are the one with a new life on the other side of divorce and you are the one to insure that you win the things that you need to make it happen successfully.
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