Slide 1: Do girls or guys enjoy performing oral sex more? The truth is, we’ll probably never know. Plenty of men and women have stated that they love oral sex, while others claim that it’s gross. Both genders claim that giving oral sex is only on the list with certain partners and it depends on how comfortable they feel with them. Maybe it has something to do with the overall sexual experience that makes a difference. Generally, providing oral pleasure to your partner may be more mental than physical. Although, for many, it’s a huge turn on to know that you are pleasing your partner sexually, especially when you have a great relationship with them. A lot of people, men particularly, don’t really see giving oral sex as a means to enjoy it physically, but as a way to please their self mentally. And like me, you may find that it’s incredibly arousing and sexy when you are intimate with another person. You can’t get any more intimate than putting your lips and your tongue downtown with the hopes of bringing your partner to a huge climax! Knowing how satisfied your partner is increases the intimacy to higher levels, if performed correctly. So the ladies have to remember, that a man giving proper oral sex takes a little longer to perfect than women. Some also say that performing oral sex satisfies them because their partner is submissive, and they are more dominant. Men and women alike appear to enjoy actually controlling the amount of pleasure that their partner is receiving. You can provide a little or a lot – it’s totally up to you.
Slide 2: Many women also claim that they only provide oral sex because they are provided oral sex, and feel somewhat obligated. Although the position is understandable, and you may want to have a healthy give and take relationship, sex in general should not be used as currency per say. Honesty should come first and any sexual act, including oral sex, should be something that you feel comfortable with doing. Lastly, the subject of oral sex being gross does come up when the topic is discussed. A good deal of both men and women don’t perform oral sex because they believe that it’s gross or smelly, and sometimes dirty. But when you think about it, guys have much more of a reason to feel that way. Things can get really messy when going down on some women! And even women would agree with that. The point however is – If you feel as though your partner smells, is dirty, or may taste bad, don’t touch it until they’ve showered and freshened up, and you feel comfortable with it. We’ll probably never know if women perform oral sex more than men, or vice versa, but it is a fact for many that oral sex is a wonderful way of expressing yourself, and satisfying your partner. And as long as you’re satisfied, do it as much as you like! Let us know what you think. Is oral sex at the top or bottom of your list? What reasons do you give or not give oral sex? We look forward to your responses! http://chatwithgirls2.com Image: Graeme Weatherston / FreeDigitalPhotos.net
